You Can’t Give What You Don’t Already Have

Life doesn’t have to be so difficult. Decisions can come easily. And yes we all deserve REAL true love and happiness. But how do we make this happen? It all begins and ends with knowing and honoring your authentic self. If you’re willing and able; you can have a peaceful life, you can love and be loved, and live a life beyond your wildest imagination.
Once my awesome clients become aware of what makes them unique, powerful and comfortable in their own skin, they are asked to read the 4 Agreements written by don Miguel Ruz. The reason this is so important is because these 4 simple Agreements will keep them accountable to themselves as they begin dating after divorce.
THE FOUR AGREEMENTSBE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.DON’T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.DON’T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.

THE 5TH AGREEMENT – was written by don Miguel Ruiz’s son don Jose Ruiz

BE SKEPTICAL, BUT LEARN TO LISTEN
Don’t believe yourself or anybody else. Use the power of doubt to question everything you hear: Is it really the truth? Listen to the intent behind the words, and you will understand the real message.
I know we are inundated with social media “feel good” quotes, however, this is truly your shortcut to happiness, love and most of all your path to owning your true authentic self without guilt!
Here’s to new beginnings and lasting loving relationships, Coach Bernadette
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